Log Kya Kahenge??? What Will People Say???
Have you ever thought or felt of doing something or raising your voice or joining a class but didn’t really go ahead with that by thinking about people and the stuff they would say about you? Then you live in a prison are fear of what others think and say about them.
The whole world is falling prey to this lame thought of What will people say? Now tell me, why do you even care what they will think or say?
YOU are going to work hard for it, it is YOU who would be responsible for any failure and even if you fail, it is YOU who is going to moan and cry. C’mon isn’t it better to at least try and see what the outcome is rather than just give up thinking about what the PEOPLE will say?
Are “THE PEOPLE” going to help you by any means for your dreams or desires you wish for yourself and want to achieve? Are they going to study for you, do the workout for you or speak for you, going to pay your bills? No, it is YOU and ONLY YOU who is going to do all this for yourself, you would definitely need some help at times, but, in the end, it is only you, who have to work diligently to reach your goal and succeed.
Always keep in mind, that it is only you who can make it to your dream or break your dream. So Dream and Dream Big.
Remember, the bigger the dream is, the harder it is to achieve, but this does not mean it is impossible. It simply means that you have to be prepared to fail and that you must not be afraid of failure. Sacrifice for your Dream but never sacrifice your Dream.
Express yourself, you might get wrong sometimes, but you will finally achieve your goal and even if you fail, you would certainly going to learn something new. Failure is part and parcel of life. Everybody fails, but the ones who never get up after failure are the big losers. Tumhare Log (The People) bhi fail ho chuke hai, so chill :).
No one, literally no one in this world is Perfect.
“No one can gauge or evalute you, unless you are giving them the right to judge you” — Bhagyashree Khakal
“Don’t be intimidated by what the people will say. Instead, try to do it and ensure that you do it in such a way that you stand differently from everyone else.”
It is only this life you have got, who knows about next Janam, lol . So let’s enjoy it. Leave behind all the societal pressures and enjoy the real pleasures of life. Just express what you feel and life will make you feel happy. Don’t be shy in saying anything or doing anything (unless you are harming anyone or doing something illegal). Make your own roads to walk on, your own libraries to read, and your own cultures to be followed; be a leader and not a follower and a leader of such a kind that has a vision and the ability to convey that vision to others, and get them excited about it. This means maintaining a positive yet realistic presence within the organization/surroundings helping everyone to stay motivated and engaged, and remember what it is that they are working for and what you should yield.
Be a light of motivation for all. Before doing something, don’t think ‘Log Kya Kahenge’, because sometimes the public opinion changes from the time of processing to the time of finalization. People will deny you ideologies while you are working upon them but, that should never lower your self-confidence. If you think you are better than others, then just keep it up and continue with your business. After you are done with it, the whole world will appreciate you and you’ll be the star. People, at some point, will try to crush you down and will do great efforts in making you realize that you are wrong. But, remember, you are right and no one can beat you.
You cannot make everyone happy. The only person you are responsible to keep is YOU!!! So in nutshell, think about What you have to say about yourself before thinking ki log kya kahenege.
